Favorite Photo, An Update, and A Question to Ponder

Well, here it is. Colby has now been home just over a year. We had a wonderful celebration on Sunday with his Baptism. I can't believe a year has come and gone. Before he came home, time seemed to be standing still. I can remember willing the days to just finish, going to bed early just to end the wait, and trying to keep busy so I wouldn't think about things. Now I enjoy every moment I can, I try to get to bed eary still but only because a two year old can really wipe me out, and I try to be not busy but there are so many things to do. Things have certainly changed.

Colby has really become such a big boy. He has grown 4 1/2 inches and is now 3 feet and 1/2 inch tall. He has also gained 7 pounds to now weigh 30 pounds. Definitely a workout to carry him! When I look at the early photos, I can see the change in him also. He has lost those little chubby baby boy cheeks and now looks so grown up. His eyes still sparkle and his smile and laugh truly light up a room. He has become very independent, going potty all by himself. He now dresses himself, with just a little help, when he wants to. The trouble: he is very determined and strong willed. He will do things when he wants to and definitely will speak his mind to you. We do have a battle of the Taurus bulls! His language skills completely amaze me. His expressive vocabulary is beyond what I could imagine. He seems to love learning new words and repeats everything he hears. And he loves to build with his blocks and make puzzles. Everything seems to spark his new found imagination. I haven't found much that he doesn't like. Right now he asks often to watch "curlin", hockey, skiin, and "nowboardin". Yes, we have been watching a lot of Olymipcs and Colby sits in amazement as he watches the skiers and snowboarders flip and twist. He tells me "Colby do that after later"! Oh boy!

So, I began this blog when we returned from our first trip to Ekat, Russia. That was back in June of 2008. I am truly in awe of where we have come since then. My life has changed so much and I am so thankful to everyone for all of their help. Through this blog I have "met" such amazing people and have been fortunate to share in their adoption journies as well. I hope that others have been reading this and that it has helped or changed them in some way. That was my intention. Now, as I sit here today, I ask myself the question that my husband has asked me before. "How long will I keep this blog?" The answer, I just don't know. I hope that people enjoy reading it. I enjoy writing it but I often find it difficult to find the time to write. Thankfully the little man decided he wanted his nap today! I have noticed a decrease in numbers and comments. So, I will ask you all:

Should I keep this blog? Will it be read and enjoyed? I will keep it up so others can read about our journey, and it will be my link to my fellow blog friends, I still enjoy reading your updates and seeing new photos. But should I keep updating it? Leave your comments and let me know. Thanks! This blogger community truly helped me through some difficult moments waiting to being Colby home. I only hope I can return the favor in some way too.

Snow, Winter at Lyman Orchard, Colby's Baptism, and A Year

We have certainly had a busy February. We finally had a pretty big snowstorm. All the snow had been staying south of us (sorry Joy). But this week we finally got enough snow for Colby to really enjoy playing in. And he definitely did. While I was tutoring, Mike and Colby built a little snow fort/igloo, complete with crawl spaces. Colby and Misha loved climbing on it, instead of in it. We also went to Lyman Orchard on Saturday. They have a Winterfest complete with ice carvers, snowboarders, and even a small hill for the kids to go sledding on rubber innertubes. The ice sculptures had a medieval times theme this year. Colby enjoyed watching the man use the power tools to carve the ice. Then we had a nice sled ride, all be it in the mud! The snowstorm we had had earlier in the week gave way to warm temperatures and lots of melting. Yuck! But, the day was warm and it felt almost like Spring is near. I think Colby's favorite part was sledding down the little hill on the innertube. He went sitting down first but then I had him lay across the tube. He loved it. That and watching the snowboarders go down the small hill they had made to do a few tricks. In Colby's words, "I do that!" Yikes! Do we have the next Shaun White?

But the weekend ended with a celebration. We had Colby Baptized. When we were planning his Baptism, I wanted to wait until after the holidays. It was such a hectic time. So I called the church in early Jan to discuss a date. I mentioned Feb and was reminded that the church only does Baptisms on the third Sun of the month and the date happened to be Feb 21. When I was asked if that was ok, I said that it was perfect. What timing! We brought Colby home on Feb 21 of last year. He has been home a year! I know many people like to celebrate Gotcha Day, the day they pick up their child/children from the baby home. However, we picked Colby up on the 17th and then had to still go to Moscow to the Embassy. It didn't truly feel complete until we reached home. The moment I saw my mom. My parents and Mike's parents picked us up from JFK Airport around 9 or 9:30 at night, after we had to wait in immigration. The first person I saw was my mom and a total sense of relief hit me. We did it! Colby was home, we were home, and we were a family. That moment I knew everything turned out ok. What a sense of joy!

So, now this year, we celebrated Colby's welcome to our family last year, and his welcome to God's family. And I couldn't have been prouder. As Rev. Gordon brought Colby on his walk down the isle he mentioned the special meaning of the day. He also mentioned that it was Gotcha Day. Another coincidence, our Rev also adopted his little girl. He certainly knew how special the day was. We had a nice lunch with our families at our house and just enjoyed being together. What a special day and what special memories I will always have for February 21st!

I'm Beautiful!!!

Wow! Someone thinks I'm beautiful. Today I learned that I

recieved a "Beautiful Blogger award from Jenny at Just Jones http://justjonesfamilyblog.blogspot.com/ What a great surprise.

Per the rules of winning the award, I'd like to pass this award on!

The rules are simple:

1. Thank the person who nominated you for this award and insert a link to their blog.

2. Copy and paste the award into your blog

3. Share 7 things about yourself.

4. Pass on the award to about 10 otherbloggers who you recently discovered andthink are great! (in no particular order)*********************************************

So, here are my 7 things.......

1) I recently quit teaching. The decision wasn't completely up to me, but in the end it worked out great and I have enjoyed being home with my son since.

2) I guess you can say I am somewhat of a loner. I have few very good friends but those that are my friends know they can count on me for anything.

3) I love helping others. I love to teach new things to people or help them get through difficult times. I find my greatest accomplishments have been when I have helped others do something they thought they couldn't.

4) I love the water. I would love to have a house on a lake. I grew up spending summers at Lake Winnepasaukee in NH. Nothing better than the sound of water to calm you.

5) I love to read. I have always liked to read before I could go to sleep and I still do. Favorite authors: Dean Koontz, James Paterson, John Grisham, Danielle Steele, and Nora Roberts.

6) My best friend= my mom. She's the only one I have come to truly know I can count on for anything. We have shared some tough times together. I wish that I was as strong of a person as she is.

7) I have been on a search to find me again. Not teaching, becoming a mom, things have really changed. I'm not sure what the future holds but I'd love to become part of the adoption world, helping families through the process. I'd also love to build on the small group of fellow adopting families that have come together in CT. Our adoption journey has certainly changed me and I'd love to help others through their journies to becoming families.

Now my nominees:

http://shellkay13.blogspot.com/

http://carneyadoption.blogspot.com/

http://mattiesbabybrothersisterfromrussia.blogspot.com/

http://ourrussianadoptionadventures.blogspot.com/

http://2009russia.blogspot.com/

http://becomingamommy.blogspot.com/

http://ourrussianangel.blogspot.com/

I have loved reading all these blogs and I hope you will too!

GOTCHA!

A year ago today Mike and I made one last 2 hour drive to Kamensk to get Colby. Today was Gotcha Day! The wait was finally over. We had gone to court, we had waited out the 10 day stay and now we could go get him. We spent the morning with Svetlana getting the paperwork we needed. We received his new birth certificate and the adoption decree, along with a few other papers. Then we took the drive to the baby home. I remembered to bring some crackers with us because we went around lunch time.

We got the the baby home and took the stairs for the last time. I wasn't sure if we would get to dress Colby or what would happen. When we got in the room, one of the caregivers asked for his new clothes. She dressed him and brought him out. I put on his socks and shoes though. Svetlana had to get some other paperwork we needed in Kamensk so we had a little time to play. We ended up spending about an hour and a half or so. I had brought a little box of candies for Colby to give ot his caregivers so when we said goodbye I gave him the box and walked with him to give it to them. I am so grateful for the care that they gave him while we weren't with Colby. They really took good care of him. There were tears and many "Spaseebahs", thank yous. What can I say to the ladies who watched over my son? Thank you didn't seem quite right but that's all I had. We finished dressing Colby in his snowsuit and then we were ready. We all hugged and said goodbye and then we were off. Colby did great in the car. He slept for part of the way and then was content looking out the window.

We didn't get back to Ekat until around 6. Mike and Svetlana went to get Colby's passport while I stayed with Colby at the apartment. I made spaghetti for dinner and then we had a nice night at home, our first as a family! The next day we would be off to Moscow!

It is amazing how far we have come! This year has been one I will never forget. And to celebrate our year home,w e will have Colby's Baptism this Sunday. It lands on Feb 21, the day we landed back home as a family of three! What new things will this next year bring?

Sharing

Do two year olds really have to share everything? Ugh! Thank goodness Grandma lives right down the road and had the day off from teaching.

And I Came Home To?.......

I have started tutoring with a company after school. At first, in mid-December I was working Tues and Thurs. I would leave the house at 2:30 and return around 5. Now I am tutoring Mon-Thurs. It has been a nice change of pace. I enjoy the time away from home and working with kids who are struggling in school. I have kids in grade K and grade 1. I don't think I am quite ready to go back teaching full-time but with tutoring I can still help kids who really need it and give them extra attention. I only work with a small group of 3 or 4 each day. 2 kids can work on the computer portion of the curriculum and then I work with just one or two teaching basic phonics and reading skills.

My leaving in the afternoon has been a big change for Colby and me though. Mike comes home from work to be with him and they get dinner ready. However, Colby has also decided to cause a fuss over nap time. Naptime was from 1-3. I have started to put him down around 12:30 so he would be up when I leave. I think Colby gets scared when Mike or I leave when he is asleep. I really have to explain at naptime that Daddy will be back after "sleep" and then Mommy will go "Teach boys ABCs". This little discussion seems to help but there are some days when COlby just can't seem to settle down. So, this leads into yesterday.

Both Colby and I have been fighting colds. I think Mike was sick first and got us sick. So, Colby was a little whiny in the morning. I thought he would go right down but nope. He went to bed great but then wouldn't stay. Thus began the up and down battle that we fight most nights and many naptimes. Mike came home to this and saw me frustrated. I hate leaving when it is like that. So I let Colby up but told him no playing with trains because he didn't sleep. And off I went to tutot. I had a parent late picking up their child so I was home a little bit later than usual on a Tuesday.

When I got home I heard the crying and just knew things hadn't improved. I opened the door to Mike yelling, "Watch your step!" Watch my step? What was going on? Then I smelled it and saw it. The poor little guy threw up all over the kitchen and was now in the bathroom. Everything was a mess. He needed to be changed and so did Mike! The story was he cried and fuzzed so much that Mike put him back to bed and he slept for about 45 min and then Mike was holding him on the rocking chair when it came. Yuck! I HATE that smell. Our night didn't get much better. I changed Colby, only to have to do it about 4 more times. We tried some water but nope. Nothing stayed. And he hasn't eaten much today either. On the plus side he is very clingy and wants to be held. But that isn't really how I want to get my hugs. He doesn't seem to have a fever, he isn't warm. I can't find a good thermometer but by touch he seems ok. He was very pale yesterday and part of today but his cheeks have some color back now. Hopefully it was a 24 hour thing and we are over it. But boy did I want to walk right back out that door.

Well, I knew we would have days like that. Thankfully we have been home almost a year and this was Colby's first really illness. He seems to have great health. He had a fever shortly after we came home but that I think was due to teething, all four molars popped out. My poor little guy. I hate to see him sick but thankfully he's looking much better now.

Feb 4, 2009

This date last year a judge in Ekaterinburg, Russia, pronounced us the parents of Colby Michael. Wow! A whole year. Our stay in the gingerbread house in Kamensk was over but now we had to wait out the 10 day stay. We wouldn't pick Colby up for good until Feb 17th. But hearing that decree let me breathe a huge sigh of relief. Our dream had finally come true!

In A Year

February 2, 2009

February 2, 2010